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Stigma: Beliefs Determine Behavior
http://www.disabilityworld.org/
By David R.
Patient (drp@mweb.co.za)
and Neil M. Orr (neil_orr@yebo.co.za)
of Empowerment Concepts, Republic of South Africa, and Programa Vida
Positiva (CNCS), Mozambique
[1]. Introduction
Many people are calling urgently for laws and policies to curtail or
prevent HIV/AIDS stigma. This is a call for changes in structures. It is
also a useless exercise until such time as we examine the roots of
stigma, and understand it's very nature. Then we can build structures to
support the understandings and mechanisms that alleviate stigma.
What exactly is stigma anyway? For the sake of this discussion, we will
define stigma as a behavior or policy/law that unfairly and negatively
impacts upon the rights, life, and opportunities of a person living with
HIV. To distinguish this form of discrimination from other types (e.g.,
gender or racial discrimination), it needs to be motivated primarily in
the perpetuator by his or her knowing that the other person is living
with HIV or AIDS. HIV/AIDS stigma is thus essentially discrimination
based upon HIV status.
Is HIV/AIDS stigma different from any other form of discrimination? This
is a difficult question. Stigma is not exactly the same as
discrimination, at least in terms of connotation. Stigma has an
additional connotation to discrimination, namely of strong emotional
rejection, over and above structural inequity. In this sense, one would
explain the expelling of a woman from her home by her family as due to
fear-based 'stigma', while one would hardly be inclined to call it
'discrimination', at least not in the common usage of the term. We would
hazard a guess in that 'stigma' is characterized by overt fear, whereas
'discrimination' is not always overt. We therefore propose that stigma
is the extreme end of a discrimination continuum.
Core questions we need to ask are: What causes people to behave in a
stigmatizing manner? What causes people not to change fear-based
stigmatizing behavior, even when they have knowledge about that casual
contact is safe? Why are people treating their loved ones, colleagues,
employees, and friends in such extreme and inhumane ways? Why is stigma
so widespread, regardless of social, educational, or economic strata?
How do those infected contribute to the perpetuation of stigma?
[2]. Beliefs and
behavior
The area to seek the answer - in our view - is simple, at least
conceptually: At the core of any behavior you will find a belief (or
series of beliefs) that causes individuals or groups to behave in a
specific manner. We need to strip away those beliefs to their core,
before we can effectively counteract stigma. Pre-existing structures
such as laws and policies do indeed reinforce stigma. However, even
these originate in some belief.
When exploring beliefs, important considerations include awareness that:
(a) beliefs can be conscious or unconscious (e.g., socialized norms); In
fact, many beliefs are not conscious; (b) there may be beliefs that
conflict or contradict each other, especially conscious versus
unconscious value and belief conflicts: (c) The relative 'stress' of a
situation influences the extent to which conscious beliefs are set aside
in a specific situation, allowing unconscious beliefs to prevail. At the
end of the day, it is the strongest belief that wins out.
More often than not, beliefs - especially unconscious beliefs - are
presented as facts. For example, a sexist statement such as 'men are
stronger than women' is defended as an obvious fact, without any basis
in detailed reality. Defense of beliefs include "it's normal",
"everybody knows this", "we've always done it this way", "It's my
culture", and "the Bible says so". In other words, there is often little
individualized thought or reasoning to support some types of belief -
they are often merely accepted by the individual or group through
socialization processes. Quite frankly, most people would not really be
able to tell you the real reasons why they are discriminating against
someone, as they have not really consciously thought about it.
It is also important to keep in mind that many beliefs have never been
discussed, even during socialization, and are absorbed through modeling
and behavioral processes. For example, a child may learn how to express
anger with violence through observation of adults, not through rational
discussion of the pros and cons of such behavior. Therefore, when we say
'challenging beliefs' we mean talking about them - bringing them into
conscious awareness, and giving them words so that they can be expressed
and examined.
This unconscious aspect of many deep-seated beliefs behind
discrimination makes it problematic in terms of rational 'education and
awareness' processes. Not only is the individual unconscious of some of
these beliefs, they may also have no words to express these beliefs.
There is also a category of beliefs concerning survival issues that are
deeply entrenched. This concerns the functional reasons for
discrimination. An example is how groups approach and respond to threats
to their survival. The unspoken belief is to do whatever is necessary -
including the sacrifice of the weak - to ensure the survival of the
group as a whole. This is the utilitarian approach - i.e., the greatest
good for the greatest number of people sometimes requires sacrifice of a
minority. Where resources are scarce or limited, leaders and groups make
decisions based upon this principle, as a matter of course.
Human behavior is therefore not random. Instead, it has a structure and
reason, instigated and directed by beliefs of various degrees of
strength and conscious awareness. Just as the medical fraternity
believes that an accurate and in-depth knowledge of the virus and the
immune system will allow us to effectively counter HIV through vaccines
and anti-HIV treatments, so a rational social scientist believes that an
accurate and in-depth understanding of people's beliefs will allow us to
understand and modify behavior to reduce vulnerability to infection, and
also how to behave fairly towards those already infected with HIV.
It is not possible for us to influence any long terms changes in
stigmatizing behavior unless we have the courage to challenge people's
core beliefs. It is not a comfortable or popular process. All too often
we are so busy worrying that we might offend a community's (or
individual's) sensibilities that we do them a disservice by refraining
from taking the risk of challenging their beliefs. If we do not
challenge these core beliefs, we have failed in doing what needs to be
done to serve our communities. We suggest that you think twice before
tackling stigma, if your image and popularity is more important to you
than being effective.
[3]. Is objective
exploration possible?
The difference between a medical scientist and a social scientist is
that a medical scientist studies something (e.g., a cell or a virus)
that can be placed outside of him or herself, on a slide under a
microscope. She or he studies something external. In contrast, a social
scientist studies something of which she or he is part. This is the
problem: A social scientist cannot separate him or herself from what is
being studied. She or he has beliefs too, which may - and usually do -
strongly determine not only where we look (and not look), but also how
to view it, what is 'right', 'wrong', and so forth.
Social scientists - whether they like it or not - are just as powerfully
affected by their socialization and survival-based beliefs, which create
phenomena such as 'blind spots' - i.e., literally not seeing something
because it contradicts fundamental personal beliefs. Another common
pitfall is the intellectual justification of something according to a
specific pre-existing belief system. I.e., we try to fit the facts into
what we would like to believe.
For us, the watershed experience that shattered our perception of
accepting blindly the popular beliefs of why people do what they do - in
terms of HIV - was meeting one more of a long line of pregnant
HIV-positive AIDS educator/counselors, who knew that they were
HIV-positive before falling pregnant. If these people - the ones who
have the knowledge and reasons - were not applying what they knew, there
has to be something seriously wrong with our understanding of what is
going on.
Stigma cannot be understood as a simple or largely conscious behavior.
If we examine and seek to understand the beliefs behind stigma, we stand
a chance of doing something about it. Just like any other apparently
irrational behavior, at the core of stigma is a set of beliefs,
presented as facts, that is creating discriminatory behavior.
So let us examine some of the possible beliefs that could explain the
stigmatization of those infected with HIV:
[4.1]. Belief 1: "If
you have HIV you're going to die, so I won't invest resources in you".
This means withdrawal of support from those who are perceived as no
longer able to contribute to the survival of the group. This is the
outcome of a group survival strategy, which has been a survival strategy
used throughout human history, namely utilitarianism, discussed
previously. It is important to note that this value-based approach is
most prominent where resources are limited, and less prominent where
resources are abundant. We point this out simply because individuals and
groups from developed (affluent) situations may have a moral problem
with this strategy, without full awareness of it's survival function in
resource-poor situations.
Many years ago, there were reports that clinics in certain parts of
Zimbabwe were told not to provide any treatment to those infected with
HIV, including the setting of a broken bone. The reason was that this
would be a waste of scarce resources. Whether this report was true or
myth is irrelevant. What is relevant is that this report illustrates
behavior based upon a belief that is quite fundamental and widespread in
situations where resources are limited. We have heard this belief
expressed in different ways by a wide range of people, including
business people, the devoutly religious (and non-religious),
politicians, and general public. No doubt, this belief causes outrage,
as it should. However, this outrage needs to be tempered with the
recognition that the rejection of those infected is no different from
other - more personal - behaviors. We have all done something similar at
some point in our lives, based upon an assessment of whether the other
person will contribute to our lives in the future.
For example, when a friend tells you that she or he is leaving town, and
moving to another city, many people start to withdraw immediately, prior
to the actual departure. Emotional withdrawal - some say this happens to
reduce the pain of loss - is common in all people, regardless of
affluence or poverty. However, when physical resources are limited, this
effect is magnified, and expressed in more hostile and overt rejecting
behavior too, such as expelling family members from the home. Is this
extreme stigmatizing behavior any different, or is it a matter of
degree?
There are two key beliefs underlying this extreme behavior, pertaining
to HIV stigma: (a) It is believed, based upon what has been said in
media and otherwise, that everyone who is infected with HIV is going to
die. In other words, she or he is going to leave, permanently. Secondly,
(b) she or he is going to get sick at some point, which means that
scarce resources are going to be used, with no cure or recovery to
justify the investment of those scarce resources.
[4.1.2] Counteracting withdrawal of resources
We need to start to be a little more careful about how we tell people
about the dangers of HIV/AIDS:
For two decades we have been drumming the same death and fear message
into communities concerning HIV and AIDS, and we act surprised and
outraged at the stigma that emerges? We try to motivate through fear -
terrifying all and sundry about HIV/AIDS - and we don't understand why
people respond with 'irrational' rejection of those infected? Why is it
so strange that people act from terror when we have told them to be
terrified?
Outdated and (in our opinion) ineffective health motivation strategies
have contributed directly to the stigmatization of those infected. You
may argue that the same 'AIDS=DEATH' campaigns have emphasized that is
okay to have casual contact and so forth, but this simplistic defense
does not take the second reality into consideration, namely the
utilization of scarce resources, for no apparent benefit (for the
group).
So what do we do? How do we counter this basic (and functional, from a
raw survival perspective) belief?
We suggest two strategies, both of which we have been applying with
great success in Mozambique, in our Positive Living program:
[4.1.2.1.] Instead of using fear as the primary message and
motivator, focus upon the impact of HIV/AIDS (or malaria, poverty, etc)
on a desired future, both by the individual and community. This presumes
the existence of a desired future, and if absent, the creation of one.
What we mean is that few people have any sense of future beyond the
immediate and short-term. In terms of stigma, we need to ensure that
individuals and groups can see how people living with HIV can be part
of, and most importantly, contribute to this desired future. Until this
is achieved, people living with HIV or AIDS (PLWHA's) are viewed as
threats to survival in a situation of scarce resources.
The same principle applies to effective prevention strategies: Many
people find dealing with the problems of today infinitely more real and
urgent than some unseen threat (i.e., a virus, for those few who have a
vague idea of germ theory) that apparently can kill you sometime in the
distant future: "If I do what you are suggesting (ABC prevention), I can
go hungry today, and tomorrow". This refers to fear of rejection by the
group when sexual behavioral changes are suggested, leading to absence
of access to resources such as food and shelter.
Unless we expand the awareness of personal time itself - i.e., extend
the time-line upon which decisions are based - the only emotional
realities that inform decisions and behavior will be immediate and
short-term survival considerations. In practice, this means that people
need a good solid reason - such as having a strongly desired long-term
goal which necessitates making a change - to justify taking the risks
involved in changing present behavior and relationship dynamics.
We utilize methods where people become aware of long-term (e.g., 5
years, depending upon the individual's situation) future-related goals -
which we call the Future Dream - that is then emotionally energized
through simple process.
Our view is that life is only protected - and respected - when it is
valued. Furthermore, it is only valued when it (my life) is believed to
be moving towards something desirable, pleasurable, fulfilling. We have
found that when we do this Future Dream process first - before HIV/AIDS
educations and awareness, and before teaching immune-enhancing methods
to PLWHA's - that the presented information and methods suddenly have
genuine relevance and utility for the individual. Quite simply, it then
makes sense to change things in order to arrive at some desired point in
the future.
We utilize exactly the same process for those people living with HIV, as
they are no different from anyone else in believing that they have no
future. (The issue of internalized stigma is discussed later). If we are
to teach those infected how to live with the virus successfully, we need
to ensure that they also believe that they have a future, and that there
are good things still to come, that it is still possible to live a good
life. Our perception is that the first thing to die when a person is
diagnosed with HIV, is their future. It dies in the doctor's or
post-test counselor's office. The body follows a few years later, unless
the future can be opened up again.
In this regard, it is often assumed that those infected will do anything
to stay healthy, when in reality this is not true: Many just don't
bother, because they believe there is no point. The same rationale
applies to HIV testing: What do I stand to gain (except anxiety) if I
get tested? Without a good reason - i.e., improved quality of life -
what other compelling and sustainable reason is there?
[4.1.2.2] Victims get persecuted. PLWHA's need to avoid supporting a
Victim Persona.
How often have you seen or heard an 'AIDS Sufferer' speak to an
audience, with nothing to say except how miserable they are, and how
hopeless-helpless they are? How many public 'AIDS Sufferers' cannot
answer the most basic questions about HIV and AIDS?
There is an assumption that publicly declaring your infection with the
virus somehow translates into instantaneous expertise, or entitlement
for public sympathy and support, when in fact it does not. In many ways
- by virtue of the Victim Persona presented - those who disclose their
status publicly perpetuate the belief that living with HIV/AIDS is
helpless and hopeless, which in turn supports the unstated shared belief
that people living with HIV and AIDS are simply an additional burden on
a society with scarce resources.
It is imperative that public disclosure is encouraged, but with full
awareness of the impact of such a disclosure. In order to prevent
victimization through stigma, the person living with HIV needs to ensure
that she or he does not utilize the victim image in the first place.
It is a tragic reality that victims get persecuted, once sympathy has
run out (which is fairly soon). People living with HIV or AIDS (PLWHA's)
have exactly the same responsibility as those who do not, in terms of
making efforts to contribute to the future development of the community.
In other words, PLWHA's need to pay attention to what is called
'secondary gain' - the perception that Victim status confers special
privileges and attention, and exemption from community responsibilities.
People don't like it, and won't support it - they have problems of their
own. However, when a person - any person - is viewed as contributing to
the future of the community, this situation changes. Therefore, the
helpless-hopeless 'AIDS Sufferer' image is counter-productive in the
fight against stigma.
At a broader social level, we need to focus upon discussing and
formulating a future that is desired. For example, politicians are often
prone to focus upon the ills of the system (or their opponents) without
providing the public with any vision for the future.
In the business arena, greater emphasis needs to be placed on how
managing the disease - getting involved in taking care of the health of
infected employees - is much cheaper than simply ignoring it, and paying
the price in terms of lower productivity, absenteeism, sick leave, and
so forth.
The essential recommendation of the above is that, regardless of HIV
status, communities will reject and eject members who are considered a
non-productive, non-contributing burden to that group. The exception is
the elderly, who have already made their contribution, and very young
children, who do not yet have the capacity to contribute. Therefore, one
aspect of reducing stigma is for PLWHA's to earn the respect of others
through engaging in a productive life, and not wallowing in 'sufferer'
or 'victim' sympathy-seeking roles.
[4.1.2.3] Focus upon the possibility of living with HIV, versus
dying from AIDS.
This sounds very similar to the previous item, namely focusing upon a
desired future. However, there is a slight - but important - difference
in emphasis: In the previous item, the focus was upon working towards a
life that is desired, whether that life is five years or twenty years.
In other words, its' focus is the quality of life, regardless of the
quantity of life. In the second item, the focus is upon quantity of
life. I.e., what can you do to live longer? This includes advocating for
better medical treatment, changing your diet towards immune-supporting
nutrition, and attitudinal shifts that support longevity. The likelihood
of a PLWHA in acting to increase the quantity of her/his life is not
high unless the first item - increasing the potential quality of life
(the why bother?' question) - is first addressed.
At a social and community level, it is critical that people hear and see
that (a) it is possible to live well with HIV, for many years, if
certain actions are taken; (b) that the infected person can - and will -
add to the collective resource base for a long time, if she or he is
supported in staying healthy. In other words, don't expect people to
care about you if you do not care about yourself.
In many profound - and largely unconscious - ways, the perception that
there is a possibility of an improved quality of life for all involved -
real benefits - when supportive (versus stigma-based) behaviors are
engaged, will go a long way to addressing some of the deep-seated
beliefs that a person living with HIV is a burden to the group, and who
needs to be ejected from the group if the group is to survive.
[4.2] Belief 2:
"HIV/AIDS is a punishment for sin".
Whether we like it or not, no matter how principled and objective we try
to be, we cannot escape the reality that many of the most fundamental
components of our internal and external social interactions, laws and
other infrastructures, are rooted in religious beliefs. Even those who
claim to be agnostic or atheist, cannot escape from the socialization of
these beliefs through education systems, the very words we use to
explain our reality (right/wrong, good/bad), laws, and so forth.
There is not a single society that does not have - either explicitly or
implicitly - a value system based upon some dogma, whether religious or
otherwise. This does not mean that the dogma is good or bad - it simply
means that it exists, and needs to taken into account.
[4.2.1] The need to blame-shame-punish
One of our most basic social beliefs is that, when 'bad' things happen,
something caused it. Whether this is because we assume the power to
cause these things to happen, or whether it is because of some mystical
process (when it is called 'sin'), we need to blame someone or
something. Blame is a very powerful social force. From blame comes
shame, and from shame comes the need to punish, to alleviate the shame.
When we tell people that if they do certain things they can get
infected, it is automatically assumed - usually by all concerned - that
it was their 'fault' that they became infected. The word 'fault' is used
carefully here, not to mean the same as responsible/response-able.
Any HIV/AIDS educator will tell you - with amazement - how audiences
seem to have an absolute fixation on where AIDS comes from. It appears
bizarre - here you are, ready and willing to tell them how to protect
their lives, their future, their children, and all they want to know is
where on earth this disease comes from, and insist on spending valuable
time on the subject. When you say that genetic tracing of the virus
shows that it originated in specific areas of Africa, there is shocked
outrage, and the most irrational attempts to reject what is considered
objective scientific fact. This is not only from the average person -
this rejection and outrage - it also comes from those who are supposedly
highly educated too.
Why? Because, as mentioned before, there is an urgent and powerful need
to ascribe blame and shame on whomever is at 'fault'.
Why do we use the word 'fault', versus 'responsible'? Because the word
'fault' (or 'blame') more accurately describes the emotions and thoughts
involved. The words 'fault' and 'blame' imply that something 'bad',
'sinful', 'wrong' has happened, and that someone needs to be punished
for it. In common usage, the words 'fault' and 'blame' are never used to
describe 'good ' things or behaviors, only 'bad'. In contrast, the word
'responsible' is used to describe 'good' things as well as 'bad' things,
such as "Who is responsible for this lovely dinner?"
Have you ever wondered why it is possible to cause national outrage and
reaction to the abuse of 20 young elephants (refer M-Net's Carte Blanche
exposé a few years back, which resulted in the largest national
post-apartheid protest response recorded), but it seems to be mission
impossible to get widespread public support for the plight of hundreds
of thousands of child-headed households (AIDS orphans)? It is a very
useful exercise to ask people .
The response we got was simple: Animals are innocent, people are not.
With people, someone can be blamed, which absolves us from any
responsibility to help. Case in point: There was a report several years
ago, that a terrible storm caused an oil ship spilt it's oil on the
beaches of Cape Town, causing major catastrophe with the penguins
population. At the same time, there was a terrible fire that swept
through a large informal settlement, leaving thousands of people
destitute. There was only enough money in the city's treasury to deal
with one of the two disasters. They chose to save the penguins. Some
people may find this amusing, but it illustrates the deep-seated belief
we seem to have that, when it comes to 'bad' things, someone is to
blame, and they need to pay the price. We seem to only have compassion
for those we consider innocent.
[4.2.2.] Internalized stigma
It is incredible that, with so many people living with HIV, that so few
openly protest against stigma. We joked a few years back that, if we
were to start a political party only for those infected with HIV, we
could win the next election. That is not going to happen, simply because
the overwhelming majority of those living with HIV feel that their
infection is their 'fault' , and that they are to 'blame', and that they
need to be 'ashamed'. Those that refuse to accept the 'blame' tend to
try to blame someone else, which is probably the basis of 'revenge'
infections. Regardless, the behavior is based upon blame/shame, which in
turn is based upon the belief that 'bad' things need to be punished.
We are not sure where this fault/blame/shame phenomena is strongest -
society, or those infected. It is probably evenly spread, with the one
sector merely feeding and supporting the other in a dependant symbiotic
manner.
[4.2.3] Shifting the blame-shame-punishment to those who stigmatize
others
Most people accept this cause-effect (blame-shame/punishment) belief,
including many of those who fight stigma or who care for those infected.
We need to be careful about merely shifting the blame-shame-punishment
of stigma, to those who stigmatize others. This merely perpetuates the
problem.
The need to 'fix' stigma through 'punishing' those who blame/shame
others, is no different than trying to 'punish' murder by hanging.
Capital punishment serves no functional purpose apart from making us
feel self-righteous and in control because we have had some form of
revenge, despite the fact that there is no evidence at all that it
actually reduces the incidence of murder. It just does not work as a
deterrent. That's why the South African and Mozambican Constitutions are
against capital punishment. In the same way, we cannot counteract stigma
by committing the same 'crime' to prevent it. We need to offer an
alternative solution: Laws and policies should - ideally - support a
shared ideal and/or value system, and not be a band-aid measure to
control something we don't understand.
[4.2.4] Blaming and shaming the PLWHA
The issue of blame-shame-punishment is not unique to HIV/AIDS. Rape
survivors have been blamed-shamed-punished by courts and the public for
decades, because people seem to need an explanation of why things happen
to people, that is controllable. For example, there is a belief that if
we can pin-point that what a woman was wearing contributed to her being
raped, then we can prevent rape by not wearing the same clothes. At the
same time, this means that she was to blame. We feel safer, and
blame-shame-punishment has occurred. The fact that rape is an act of
violence, that the motivation for rape has nothing to do with sex, age,
or what someone wears, and has instead got to do with the need to
express power and dominance due to deep-seated inadequacy, is ignored in
this blame-shame-punishment of the rape survivor.
In a similar dynamic, PLWHA's are blamed and shamed for being infected
with a virus. There is intense curiosity regarding how they got
infected, and any detail that will (a) highlight the difference between
the observer and the PLWHA, and (b) identify behaviors that allow the
observer to blame the PLWHA for getting infected in the first place.
This process allows the observer to feel as if HIV infection can be
controlled.
[4.2.5] Counteracting blame-shame-punishment
So where do we begin in the process of eliminating
blame-shame-punishment? We would imagine that the first place to look is
why we seem to need this process, in terms of maintaining a sense of
coherence in our world-view. In other words, we all need to be able to
understand how things work in our world, in terms of cause-and-affect,
so that we can do what needs to be done, and take responsibility for
what we do. We simply cannot allow entropy (decline of order into chaos)
to happen - it is in our nature to create greater order, not less. The
exception is when a system is so dysfunctional that we need to destroy
it because it cannot be rehabilitated. However, even this destruction is
viewed as a means to an end, with the end being a more ordered and
functional system (defined according to some belief or the other). This
is how wars are justified.
Our legal systems represent how we attempt to define and structure
cause-and-effect and responsibility in our behaviors. Prior to the
1960's, the emphasis was upon individual 'blame'. There was little scope
for mitigating circumstances. Then, with the advent of Behaviorism (a
school of psychological theory that basically said that the only thing
that was 'real' , was behavior - thoughts were irrelevant), social
influences (conditioning) rose to the fore, and we started to examine
how a person's childhood influenced later behavior. This continued for
many years, and reached a climax in a famous case where the defense
lawyer persuaded the jury that a murderer had no option - based upon his
childhood influences - but to murder the victim. In other words, the
murderer had no free will - everything was determined through
socialization. The judge agreed, but with a very important twist: If
this was true, then society was to 'blame'. As the jury was the
representative of society, he sent the jury to prison! As you can
imagine, people - especially juries - were a little more careful about
placing the 'blame' entirely on external influences.
It is probably a good time to introduce religion at this point, as the
various religions of the world have had a fundamental and profound
influence in the understanding of 'blame', what causes 'bad' things to
happen, and how we should respond to this. However, when you add
religion to sex (and HIV is after all a sexually-transmitted disease for
most people in the developing world), you get a rather heated debate
that is rarely rational. If we may summarize:
(a) Sex is 'bad' and punishable unless sanctioned by the representative
of the religion (i.e., marriage); Therefore, HIV/AIDS is somehow a
punishment for some or other sexual 'sin'; "You see - we told you so!"
Therefore, HIV/AIDS is viewed as the physical proof of 'sinful' sexual
behavior. So why should this matter?
(b) It matters because people want to go to Heaven. For many people,
peace, joy, and fulfillment are not possible in their physical
circumstances, nor can they see this as being potentially possible. So
they don't try to get it 'here', and they seek it 'there', with 'there'
being in Heaven. And guess who controls the security access codes to
Heaven? Yes, the moral authorities - the same ones who say sex is a sin,
and HIV/AIDS is proof of sin.
We need to make it abundantly clear that we are fully aware of the
incredible work and compassion displayed by many people from all
religions, including in the area of HIV/AIDS. It has been our
observation that these people focus their values and beliefs upon love,
compassion, forgiveness, and that they do not place much energy or time
on blame-shame-punishment. They are too busy making a difference to
engage in dehumanizing activities.
[4.2.5.1] Challenging Victim Theology
The root of value-based blame-shame-punishment is fear - fear of being
worthy enough to be accepted and loved. This applies not only to their
relationship with God, but also to other people.
A good friend - and Methodist Minister - refers to the emphasis upon
blame-shame-punishment in dealing with people living with HIV as 'Victim
Theology'. He suggests that we start to focus upon a theology of
self-worth, love and compassion. For those that find that inconceivable,
it is not too difficult: Historically, theologians have selected
segments of text to support the prevailing power focus, such as males
being superior to females. Text that contradicted such preferences was
de-emphasized as being of only 'historical' relevance. For example, most
of the 'abominations' in the Old Testament were discarded as being of
'historical' interest only, except for one or two which supported the
interests of the prevailing power elite.
However, this is not a discussion on religion, and the purpose of the
above is to illustrate the pliability of religious dogma according to
the priorities of those who purport to represent such values and dogma.
We cannot ignore the reality that the majority of the population in the
developing world has a strong and enduring religious value system,
whether this is Muslim, Christian, or traditional animist. We also
cannot ignore the fact that these systems of belief have a powerful
influence on stigmatization, including internal stigmatization by those
infected.
To ignore this reality, we not only ignore probably one of the key areas
to deal with stigma, but we also set aside one of the most widespread
resource infrastructures in dealing with the consequences of HIV/AIDS,
such as home-based care, caring for AIDS orphans, prevention, and a
myriad of other issues.
Therefore, an important recommendation in dealing with stigma is to
encourage/challenge organized religion to not only examine their
emphasis on blame-shame-punishment (versus compassion), but also to do
so actively and publicly.
[4.2.5.2] Political vision and leadership
Another important area is within the political arena: Politicians need
to spend less time reacting to each other, and spend more time creating
a vision for a better world, and then earn their keep by making this a
reality. It is perhaps time that we start asking ourselves why people do
not resist death too strongly, and why people are so willing to accept
blame and shame for merely having a virus in their blood. Leaders need
to engage the task of stigma directly, by simple actions such as
publicly embracing those living with HIV.
Not too many years ago, the leader of a political party in Gauteng died
of what was rumored to be AIDS. The party leadership issued a statement
denying this. However, what was shocking was that the reason they wanted
these rumors to end was that it 'shamed' the party and the family of the
deceased. The same party strongly advocates against stigma.
This is not too dissimilar to a charity event where a woman living with
HIV publicly announced her status to the crowd, in an effort to overcome
stigma in the community. The political representative of the area had
wonderful words of encouragement to the crowd, congratulating her on
being so brave. As he embraced her - on the stage - he whispered into
her ear "How could you shame you family and community like this?!"
These examples illustrate the often-superficial platitudes and attitudes
of leaders in our countries. They have not dealt with the core beliefs
they hold.
[4.3] Belief 3:
"It's the way we do things"
I.e., culture and tradition presented as enduring facts that should not
be questioned.
We were doing a talk a few weeks back, and during the
question-and-answer section a woman - who had taken a cell-phone call
while we were speaking earlier - raised her hand and said "It is not in
my culture to discuss sex with my children". Our response was: "It's
also not in your culture to carry a cell phone, but you've adapted to
that with great ease."
The previous story illustrates an important quality of culture: It's
about convenience and increased survivability (functionality). At first,
there is skepticism, but if it works, it soon becomes "What we do".
Culture and traditions include a wide range of behaviors and activities,
including language, dance, rituals, how we deal with illness and death,
and the regulation of relationships, gender roles, and sexuality.
[4.3.1.] Can - and should - culture be protected from change and
evolution?
In recent years there has been an enormous amount of energy directed at
protecting 'culture'. This is based upon the value of respecting
diversity and differences. However, protecting a culture or tradition is
a two-edged sword: On the one hand you preserve unique qualities of a
group of people, and on the other hand such protecting can reduce the
flexibility of that group in the face of change, thus reducing their
ability to survive.
Historically, there is not such thing as a culture or tradition that
arrives spontaneously, and endures unchanged. This is simply because
cultures and traditions were born out of specific situational
necessities, and endure only as long as that necessity continues. The
very moment that the need changes, the tradition ceases to fulfill any
survival function.
It is also important to realize that every tradition serves specific
groups more than others, and will be protected by those whom it serves
most. It is at this point that self-interest interferes with the
interests of the group as a whole. Gender roles is a case in point:
Women stand to gain a great deal from equality in practical reality,
while men perceive this as a real threat to their power. When resources
are scarce, this becomes very difficult, as there is not a lot to share
equally.
Cultural traditions and norms are also comforting: They provide a sense
of identity and belonging. When situations become difficult, it is
reassuring to know that you know "what people like us do" in such
circumstances, even if the methods are no longer effective.
The harsh reality is that you cannot effectively protect a culture or
tradition. This is guaranteed to cause harm to the people it is supposed
to serve, in the long term. The reason is simple: Change is the only
guaranteed reality, and this requires adaptation and flexibility.
Languages come and go, as do all other cultural behaviors and norms. The
way that they change is revealing: When a norm is no longer functional,
those that hold on to it die out, while those that change, survive. The
only way to allow some language or tradition to survive is incorporation
into a newer tradition or language.
[4.3.2] Cultural evolution as a method of group survival: The danger
of ethnocentric strategies
The direction of this 'survival of the fittest' is not always obvious or
anticipated, and people find ways to adapt in unique ways, thus ensuring
continued diversity. What is important to note about this 'survival of
the fittest' process, is that it is geared to the survival of the group,
not the individual. People do what they have to do to survive -
collectively - according to their resources and situation. To assume
that a group that is different from yours must do it your way is called
ethnocentricity.
Social responses to HIV/AIDS prevention strategies in the developing
world are a classic example of this. This example will no doubt will
stir up controversy, which is an excellent manner to force unspoken
beliefs to surface for identification and clarification. We present this
explanation for the failure of specific types of prevention methods as
the basis for debate, not as a definitive 'answer' or point of view.
The developed world believes that people in developing countries have
the same system of survival: In the more affluent developed world, the
sick, the young and the elderly can fall back on the welfare system,
funded by a taxed society. In the developed world, the priority is
therefore to ensure economic growth, employment, and the consequent
adequate tax-derived funds to ensure that the support system continues.
However, in the developing world, this type of economic welfare 'safety
net' largely does not exist. Instead, the family - nuclear and extended
- provides such support. In the developing world, the continuity of the
support system depends entirely upon procreation, to ensure that there
are enough children to provide support when you get old or ill.
It is therefore - according to a developed world perspective and
realities - logical and 'factual' that condoms will (and should be) the
primary form of HIV prevention, as it not only does not interfere with
the (economic) support system - it is relatively cheap - but it also
ensures that the system continues into the future, by reducing the
(costly) illness burden on the system. You will notice, for example,
that in most debates and discussions regarding medical treatment or
prevention strategies, that there is a great deal of focus upon the
economic costs of the proposed options.
However, from a developing world perspective, condoms directly prevent
the continuity of their support system - children and procreation - by
preventing conception as well. The greatest obstacle to convincing
people to wearing condoms in the developing world is "How can I have
children if I always wear a condom?" Good question . find an workable
answer to that one, and we may have a solution to ensuring the
continuity of the support system, and preventing HIV infection. Until we
solve that dilemma, people are going to have sex without a condom.
For those who dispute this - and we are sure there will be many - we
suggest that you look at the Ugandan experience, often touted as an
example of how the other forms of prevention (be faiuthful to your
partner, delayed onset of sexual activity for young people) can produce
effective results. In Uganda, condoms were a minor component of the
prevention strategies that led to declines in infections.
Before the outrage begins, let us state clearly that we believe that
condoms are indeed a critical component of prevention, especially in
high-risk areas such as commercial sex and pre-marital relationships.
However, based upon the evidence, we have not seen condoms make a dent
in infection rates anywhere else. This is not because we do not support
condom usage - it is because many people won't use them, no matter how
much we have supported their use or made them available. Perhaps condoms
would be viewed as a viable prevention method if economic and social
systems were different? We don't know.
However, this discussion concerns stigma, not prevention. The point of
the above example is that we often make fundamental assumptions without
thinking about them.
[4.3.3.] Tell the whole truth, and trust cultures to deal with it
One of the only forces that we can rely upon to encourage communities to
adapt to the new realities of HIV/AIDS, is a full awareness of those
realities. However, we are not referring to the bland intellectual type
of awareness that most people associate with 'awareness'. Awareness does
not come from statistics or posters.
Instead, we refer to direct awareness of the realities of HIV/AIDS,
including all the gory details. Social change unfortunately is usually
motivated by pain. For as long as society can hide the pain, change
tends not to happen.
Many countries missed a critical opportunity to promote prevention in
the early years of the epidemic, because the leadership was afraid of
spreading panic. They were afraid of the economic consequences (e.g.,
investor confidence, tourism) if the general public saw what AIDS really
looked like. For this reason, certain public broadcasting stations had a
policy of not showing any person with AIDS-related illness. It was kept
hidden and sanitized. They reckoned that they convince the public to
change their behavior through reason and information alone. This failed,
predictably.
[4.3.4] Stigma burn-out as an inevitable stage in the pandemic
Communities will continue to stigmatize those infected until such time
as it can no longer function without those infected. In other words,
until there are simply too many people to hide away, and until those
infected - and others knowing that that they are infected - are filling
important and valuable roles in society.
This is not a theoretical concept: In almost every country affected by
HIV/AIDS, stigma has endured until there were simply too many people
infected or ill to ignore. Then, when the realities are so huge, the
society undergoes a 'stigma burn-out', which is a process of giving up
on trying to deny what is really going on.
[4.3.4.1] Accelerating stigma burn-out
How can we accelerate this 'stigma burnout'? I.e., how can we
short-circuit this process of denial, so that the stigma ends sooner?
One of the primary methods is for people to see and know the truth of
what is going on. This means greater emphasis upon HIV testing, and
greater public profiling of people living with HIV, both healthily and
with illness - the whole range. People do not respond to abstracts, nor
to statistics. They respond to real-life reality, which affects them
directly.
We need to increase our capacity for HIV testing, and we need to
strengthen the benefits of getting tested (discussed earlier). As things
stand right now, a tiny fraction of those infected actually know about
it, and with the current facilities, this is not going to change much.
Once we have a more realistic view of HIV/AIDS - from a public
perspective - we need to allow various cultures to adapt to these
realities, as they have done in the past. Yes, there will be resistance,
but on a whole people will find solutions. None of this can happen if
they do not know - see, hear, touch - the realities that threaten their
survival.
[5] Conclusions
In conclusion, stigma is in essence one of two things: The onset of a
Dark Age of fear, pain and social fragmentation, or the opportunity for
a Renaissance - a revival of a new social order, based upon greater
compassion and understanding. The only way to head off this potential
21st century Dark Age is the open questioning of what we hold to be true
in our cultures.
In order for us to be effective, we must challenge people's core
beliefs. We have spent 20 years trying to fix everything except what
really needs to be fixed. We are addressing everything except our core
beliefs, and yet it is these very beliefs that are creating the problem.
There is only one solution, if we hope to make any difference at the
social level. We must challenge people's beliefs. When we can do this,
we can then make a real impact on stigma, discrimination, gender
inequity and a range of other social issues. What are those values we
want to share? How do we want to live? Unlike past generations, we
cannot say "For my children I want ." If we wait and delay, it will be
too late. This time, we need to start with "For me, and my children, I
want ."
It is small comfort to those infected who have been stigmatized to know
that there is a larger social process which is occurring, and that at
some point things change for the better. However, this is how it happens
in every society. Therefore, continue to challenge the fear and
ignorance - fight with understanding, knowing that you are helping to
accelerate the larger process. However, always remember that the change
starts with you - your beliefs about yourself. Question these beliefs,
and then you have earned the right to challenge the beliefs of others.
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